7 Things Parents Can Do To Build A Secure Attachment With Their Toddlers
Samantha’s secret tip: Always be responsive to your toddler, even if you are trying to teach them about waiting. Communicate to them by saying, “I hear you, but I will come when I'm finished washing the dishes’’. This should only be said in non-distressing situations, do not say this when your toddler is in distress; go to them immediately.
1. Be Responsive
Be responsive to your toddler’s requests, needs, questions and communication. Offer them hugs and acts of love and play with them daily.
2. Get Their Opinions
Ask your toddler their opinion on things and give them choices to make.
3. Provide Positive Feedback
Provide positive feedback, praise, comments and support for your child's success.
4. Provide Enough Play Time
Provide enough time for play, independence, and successes and failures.
5. Provide Challenges
Provide small daily challenges, such as providing toys and materials that can be used in several ways.
6. Do Hand Over Hand
Do hand-over-hand on tasks that your toddler might need help with.
7. Listen Each Day
Participate in actively listening each day as your toddler talks.
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